Downsizing June 17, 2025

The Hidden Costs of Staying Put: Why Your “Paid-Off” Home Might Be Costing You a Fortune

If you’re like most of my clients over 55, you’ve probably had this conversation: “Our house is paid off, so it makes sense to stay, right?”

It’s a logical assumption. No mortgage payment equals financial freedom. But after helping families navigate successful downsizing transitions across Pennsylvania and Maryland, I’ve discovered something that might surprise you: staying in your current home could be one of the most expensive decisions you’ll ever make.

The Real Cost of “Free” Housing

Let me share Sarah’s story. When I first met her, this 68-year-old widow was adamant about staying in her 4-bedroom colonial in Hagerstown. “Alan, the house is paid off. Why would I spend money to move?”

Six months later, after we ran the numbers together, Sarah discovered her “free” housing was actually costing her $2,300 per month. Here’s how:

The Monthly Reality Check:

  • Property taxes: $485/month
  • Homeowner’s insurance: $145/month
  • Utilities (heating/cooling 2,800 sq ft): $280/month
  • Maintenance and repairs: $350/month average
  • Lawn care/snow removal: $120/month
  • HOA fees: $95/month
  • Opportunity cost of home equity: $825/month*

*Based on $200K equity that could be earning 5% annually in investments

Total monthly cost of “staying put”: $2,300

The Downsizing Alternative

Sarah eventually moved to a beautiful 2-bedroom townhome in a 55+ community in Chambersburg. Her new monthly costs:

  • Mortgage payment (financed half the purchase): $890/month
  • Property taxes: $195/month
  • Insurance: $85/month
  • Utilities: $140/month
  • Maintenance: $0 (covered by HOA)
  • HOA fees (includes lawn, snow, amenities): $245/month

Total monthly cost: $1,555

Monthly savings: $745
Annual savings: $8,940

But the financial benefits were just the beginning.

Beyond the Numbers: The Life-Changing Benefits

“Alan, I got my weekends back,” Sarah told me recently. “No more worrying about the furnace breaking down or spending Saturdays on yard work. I’m volunteering at the library and took up watercolor painting. I should have done this years ago.”

What My Downsizing Clients Gain:

  1. Peace of Mind No more midnight panic about broken pipes or roof leaks. Modern, well-maintained homes mean fewer surprises.
  2. Community Connection Purpose-built communities offer instant friendships and shared interests. Many of my clients say it’s like college all over again – but better.
  3. Prime Location Access That large suburban home might become a liability as you age. Downsizing often means moving closer to healthcare, shopping, and family.
  4. Energy Efficiency
    Newer, smaller homes typically feature modern insulation, windows, and HVAC systems that can cut utility bills by 40-60%.

The Three Biggest Downsizing Mistakes (And How to Avoid Them)

After guiding so many transitions, I’ve identified the costly mistakes that trip up most downsizers:

Mistake #1: Waiting Too Long

The best time to downsize is when you’re still healthy and energetic enough to enjoy the process. Don’t wait until circumstances force your hand.

Mistake #2: Emotional Pricing

Your family memories are priceless, but they don’t add market value. I help clients price strategically to attract multiple offers and maximize sale proceeds.

Mistake #3: Downsizing Too Much

Going from 2,800 square feet to 1,200 can feel jarring. I typically recommend staying within 500-800 square feet of your current space for the most comfortable transition.

Is Downsizing Right for You?

Ask yourself these questions:

  • Are you spending more than 6 hours weekly on home maintenance?
  • Do you use less than 60% of your current home regularly?
  • Are you concerned about aging in place safely?
  • Could you use extra monthly cash flow for travel, grandchildren, or peace of mind?
  • Are you tired of dealing with home repairs and upkeep?

If you answered “yes” to two or more questions, it might be time to explore your options.

Making Your Move: A Proven Process

Here’s how I guide clients through successful transitions:

Phase 1: Discovery: We’ll evaluate your current home’s market value, identify your ideal new lifestyle, and run detailed financial comparisons.

Phase 2: Preparation: Strategic decluttering, home staging, and positioning your property for maximum market appeal.

Phase 3: Transition: Coordinated selling and buying with contingency protections, so you’re never homeless or paying for two homes.

Phase 4: Settlement: Moving coordination and final walkthroughs to ensure everything goes smoothly.

Your Next Step: A No-Pressure Consultation

The biggest mistake I see is analysis paralysis. Clients spend years wondering “what if” instead of getting concrete answers about their options.

That’s why I offer complimentary downsizing consultations. In 60 minutes, we’ll:

✓ Determine your home’s current market value
✓ Calculate your potential monthly savings
✓ Identify communities that match your lifestyle goals
✓ Create a timeline that works for your situation

There’s no pressure to move forward – just clarity about your options.

Ready to Explore Your Downsizing Options?

Don’t let another year pass wondering “what if.” Whether you’re ready to move next month or just want to understand your options for the future, I’m here to help.

Contact Alan Fishman, Your Transition Specialist:

📱 Cell: 301.518.8390 (Call or text anytime)
📧 Email: alan.fishman@cbrealty.com
🏢 Office: 717.762.7111
📍 Address: 1814 E. Main St., Waynesboro, PA 17268
🌐 Website: fishmanfindshomes.com

Licensed in Pennsylvania and Maryland

Call today to schedule your complimentary downsizing consultation. Your future self will thank you.

Alan Fishman is a licensed real estate professional specializing in senior transitions and downsizing throughout Pennsylvania and Maryland. He has helped families successfully navigate their moves to right-sized homes and communities.